I was thinking the other day…
Life is hard.
I thought about this. Nothing seems easy. If I want to live, work is required. The expenditure of energy is necessary to get results. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. No action, no results.
Yes, life is hard, but withholding my energy from some person or project not only makes my life harder, it makes it less fulfilling.
What are you giving to life? What are you getting back?
Accomplishing anything worthwhile requires so much hard work.
If I want to accomplish anything noteworthy or worthwhile, then hard work is mandatory. There is no short cut, no easy hack, no magic pill to swallow. Busting my ass is the only answer to achieving anything worthwhile.
I think about the things I want to see in the world…
- write a few books
- create a magazine
- develop a few apps
- Tibet, India and the Himalayas
- perform on stage, either as speaker or actor
- a stronger, healthier body
None of it is easy. There are no short-cuts. I have to put in the time and practice, the energy and effort to make it all happen.
All of these things require devotion. It’s not a word I use very often, but if there’s no devotion, then I’ll never put in the time.
love, loyalty, or enthusiasm for a person, activity, or cause
What are you devoted to?
Most of the time, I don’t WANT to do the hard work.
I don’t want to do the hard work most of the time. I’d rather relax, watch a Youtube video or sports, read a book, or surf the internet. Who wants to work out and exercise? Who wants to write everyday especially when you don’t feel like it?
I’m learning that when I face the hurdle of not wanting to do something, then I should find someone that does. In the connected world and economy that we live in, it’s not that hard to find someone who compliments your skill set.
Stop whining about hard work and figure out what you’re willing to work hard on.
Then find other people to do the hard work you want no part of.
Collaboration is a lesson I’m learning (the hard way).
Who do you know that can do the things you don’t want to do?
It’s easy to do nothing and be lazy.
Initiating a new project is exciting and invigorating, but after the excitement ends, real work needs to get done. It becomes easy to do nothing and get a little lazy.
But I’ve noticed something about my laziness. I’m lazy when I’m not clear on what to do next, and I’m not clear on what to do next because I don’t have enough reasons to BE CLEAR. Kinda circular, I know.
Knowing your “why?” is crucial to doing anything in life.
I’m also lazy if I’m doing something I’ve never done before and I know my process is going to be very inefficient.
What if all laziness was a by-product of my inability to see clearly? What if laziness was simply a result of my own uncertainty?
If the next steps aren’t clear to me, then I can be sure of one thing: I will definitely procrastinate.
Define the next steps with clarity. Be concrete. Write it down. 12 different people should be able to take what you’ve written down, perform the next steps, and produce similar results.
If you’re being lazy or procrastinating then spend more time being clear. If a problem repeats itself or still confuses you, then spend more time defining the actual problem.
Clarity (easy to perceive, understand, or interpret) = Power (the ability to do something or act in a particular way)
The more CLEAR you are, the more POWER you will exhibit.
It’s easy to quit when things get tough.
And it will get tough. I start a project and pretty soon I find that there’s something or someone I don’t know, something I don’t know how to do, or a task that is beyond my current skill level.
Starting Everybody’s Famous quickly taught me what I didn’t know, and what I’d have to learn quickly.
- Will this venture succeed? How can I validate a magazine, actually get people to fork over their cash for something that doesn’t exist yet?
- How will this magazine earn money? What’s the business model? What will people pay for? What’s the value being delivered?
- What kind of corporation is it? LLC, C, S, or B?
- Since the magazine requires content, stories from local communities, where will that content come from? How will we find those people? How do we tell compelling stories that engages just about anybody?
- What other legal considerations, ethical questions need to be answered?
- I’m not a journalist. I’m not a photographer or videographer. I’m not an audiophile. EFM is a multi-media magazine, so I’m going to have to learn fast. Each one of those statements comes with a bunch of questions, research, and activities.
I could be here all day listing everything I don’t know about how to run a magazine or a business, but the point is, each one of these challenges are learning opportunities. And learning requires lots of mistakes. Lots of them.
In the beginning of learning anything, there will be a disproportionate amount of mistakes to what you do right. Know this and suck it up.
It’s easy to quit when you suck at something, but anything worth doing is worth doing POORLY.
Do it wrong, learn, and grow. Just don’t quit when things get tough.
But I don’t know “how?”
I learned a few years back NEVER to ask how to do something until I’ve tried it first. I never realized that question could be used as a cop out from true action. I’d say 90% of the people who ask “how?” before any research or taking some kind of action are not truly serious.
I used to be like that, maybe not verbally but definitely in my head. I found over time that if someone has enough desire, has enough reasons to do something, they’ll find a way to make it happen.
I also found that if I dug down deep enough into a problem or project that the next step to take was always within my line of sight. Even if I couldn’t see beyond that next step, I always knew what the very next step was, and once I took it, then next one would reveal itself.
Stop playing around. You know what the next step is. The next step you need to take for your relationships. Your business. Your community. Be responsible and take it. Stop asking “how?” and just do it. At least Nike got that right.
Oh, and from now on, replace “how?” with “why?” to get to the heart of things. If your purpose isn’t strong enough, it won’t get done anyway, regardless of all the how-to books in the world.
WHY always beats HOW.
I can do so much better…
Really? You can have a better relationship, a better job, a better home, and a better life?
Then do something about it.
‘Better’ requires a little bit of faith. Faith requires a clear vision.
If you don’t have a vision for your life and all your ideals – your ideal average day, your ideal relationship, your ideal job, etc. – then you won’t act. You’ll talk and talk and talk, but nothing will get done.
Faith and risk require a solid vision or plain ignorance. You’ll go on with your sh*tty job and your mediocre lifestyle, but nothing will get ‘better’ unless you see things clearly and ACT.
So basic, but it’s easy to get caught up in our own heads.
Besides, if you have a clear vision and are taking the necessary actions to see it through, you’ll be able to put up with that sh*tty job a little while longer. Your time there is coming to an end, and you KNOW it. It’s just a matter of time.
Can you imagine? Working that job and having no light at the end of the tunnel?
Having no vision sucks. Not acting at all is worse.
C’mon, let’s do this. Life can be better for all of us, and you know it.
What’s your next step?
In your relationships?
For your health?
For recreation and travel?
For your money?
Clarity is one step closer. Take a step towards your vision today.
Even if it’s tiny and miniscule.